Life’s Challenges and Where I Have Been

Keep Calm I am back

The last 9 weeks have been some of the most challenging that I have ever had. As many of you know I have had a relationship. Because I respect Kelli I am not going to talk publicly about our split All I can say is life could not be better. One of these days when the time is right I will write about some of it. Now is not the time.

It’s amazing the minute II even suggested I was split with Kelli all the social media groupies came out to play. It is rather annoying at times and frankly I am not interested.In many of these cases, the groupies do not have full time jobs which gives them way too much time to play on social media. Social media has many great sides to it but giving people who have nothing to do a forum to talk to thousands is really asking for trouble. Between my running my own business and my strong association with Toronto Police i really do get it.

I basically took the last 9 weeks to run my business, sort out my personal life( yes it is a lot better), sort out my mental health (I am fine but still working on it) and look after me. One of my biggest faults is that i take care of everyone else before I take care of myself. This time I have made taking care of myself and my family my number one priority.

Yes this is not sitting well with some people but oh well. In the past I worked way too hard when I worked in health care but does anyone remember that I worked 90 hours a week sometimes and the projects I implemented? Not really and in the long run it hurt my family time.

Now i just want a simple life. One without complication and one that supports what I need. I know many people will be unhappy with this statement but that is not my issue anymore. It is theirs.

One of the things I put on hold was a lot of my social media presence. I have held a lot back but I am now back. I love being on social media but I just need to balance it with all the other things I am doing in life.

I have let my blogging slide the last few weeks.I have only posted a couple of times in the last 7 weeks. My blogging is now back to normal. I should be posting 3 to 4 times a week now.

Besides that all I can publicly say is that since my Dad passed away almost 5 years ago, I have not been in as good a place personally as I am now. I am feeling great despite what some people think. I am sorting things out. They key is not to just complain about life but have an action plan on how to deal with things.

A special thanks to all the people that have supported me, called, emailed and who have care. The best is yet to come.

Web Development Best Practices and Time

  I spend a lot of time designing websites for clients. I really feel a lot of clients and other web designers are unrealistic. People want to pay bottom dollar prices or have no idea how long a site takes to move. What is worse is “Developers” who do not know what they are doing… Continue Reading

Respect On Social Needs To Improve

  I spend a lot of time on social media. One thing that seems to be lacking is respect. I do not think it is just a social media issue but really a society based issue. One thing I know for sure is it has to improve. Please when you are on social media treat… Continue Reading